What Are the Popular Recovery Prayers?

Spirituality is one of the core tenets of Alcoholics Anonymous and other 12 Step programs. Many of the 12 Steps either directly or indirectly mention God or a Higher Power. Though that Higher Power may mean different things for different AA members, many people in AA incorporate prayer into their recovery life. Many people both inside and outside of 12 Step programs view spirituality as a core part of their recovery, which is why certain prayers became published and popularized by substance abuse recovery groups. Below are some of the more common recovery prayers.

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Recovery Prayers

The Serenity Prayer


“God, grant me the serenity to accept the things I cannot change,
Courage to change the things I can,
And wisdom to know the difference.”


The Serenity Prayer is perhaps the best-known recovery prayer and the one most closely linked to AA and other 12 Step groups. In fact, the Serenity Prayer was the first prayer to be adopted and published by AA. Reinhold Niebuhr, a theologian, wrote the prayer and used it in several sermons throughout the 1930s and 1940s. The prayer gained popularity among religious groups, and one of the early members of AA liked it enough to bring it to the founders’ attention. Shortly afterward, the Serenity Prayer became part of the fabric of AA. Today, AA prints the Serenity Prayer on the backs of their recovery chips.


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The prayer reflects two core values of AA and other 12 Step programs: spiritual help and personal responsibility.

AA maintains that recovery from alcoholism requires spiritual help and that alcoholism is not something that one can overcome on one’s own. Many people disagree, believing that this stance removes autonomy from alcoholic individuals. Nevertheless, by acknowledging that there are “things [they] cannot change,” those who say the Serenity Prayer can find the sense of peace they may need to let go of grudges or self-judgements.


For more on this subject, please read about religious recoveries in our recent article called “Is It Required to Be Religious to Get Clean and Sober.”


In contrast, the “courage to change the things I can” line points back to personal responsibility. Some of the 12 Steps require acknowledging and making amends for the pain that one’s alcoholism has caused others. These steps certainly require courage, as the Serenity Prayer states, and those who say the prayer earnestly prepare themselves to use this courage.


Another informative article on this matter about faith based treatment can be found at the Alcohol Rehab Guide.

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The Surrender Prayer

“Dear God, I am powerless and my life is unmanageable without Your help…
Help me to see how I have harmed others, and make me willing to make amends…
Keep me ever mindful of thoughts and actions that harm myself and others…”


The Surrender Prayer, written anonymously, carries similar themes to those of the Serenity Prayer. The praying individual asks God to grant the ability to make amends and abstain from further harm. The most important part of Surrender Prayers is, of course, the focus on surrender. The supplicant commits him-or-herself fully to God and God’s mercy.

Prayers for Certain Steps

“God, I offer myself to thee…”

“I pray that you now remove from me every single defect of character…”

“Where there is hatred, let me sow love…”


Certain steps in the 12 Step program come with their own prayers. The third, seventh, and eleventh steps in particular have specific prayers. These steps ask participants to:


  • Commit themselves to God’s care (step 3)
  • Ask God to remove shortcomings (step 7)
  • Seek to improve their relationships with God (step 11)

Each of these prayers reflects the intentions in these steps, thus helping the addicted person work toward their goals.

Individual Prayer

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People in recovery may also choose to pray on their own, using whatever words come to their minds as they ask God for help, pray for loved ones, or express gratitude. This type of prayer can become an essential part of a thriving spiritual life. It becomes especially helpful in the day-to-day moments when an addicted person may face temptations and triggers. Because this form of prayer requires no reading or memorization, it’s available whenever an individual may need them.

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